A compassionate, structured programme

Helping separated parents reduce conflict & focus on their children.

The Parenting Apart Programme (PAP) is an evidence based, quality-assured programme that helps separated parents focus on what matters most – their children.

If you are not able to communicate with one another as parents, then you are not able to communicate effectively about your children. This inevitably has an impact on them. Please do not wait until things become more difficult, seek support to help you have those conversations

Improve communication between parents

Reduce the impact of conflict on children

Build workable co-parenting arrangements

Free, confidential, no obligation – online or in person.

Flexible programmes – 4, 8 or 12 weeks to suit your family’s needs.

Prices from £1,600 – a fraction of the average £20,000 Family Court case. Costs can be split between parents if agreed.

Sessions available online or in person.

Proven outcomes

Real change for families that take part

67%

of parents recommend the programme to others

63%

improved their co-parent communication

67%

found the Parent Working Agreements helpful

55%

of children showed improved emotional wellbeing

Of all the money, time and trauma involved in going through the legal system, The Parenting Apart Programme offered some light, compassion, understanding and - most importantly - facts about what the children needed most from us as parents.

We went from not speaking without an argument to being able to meet and plan for our son’s future. I now get quality time with my son, which is important for his upbringing.

– A parent who completed the programme

Understanding the programme

Clear, honest, and focused on your children

What is the programme?

From conflict to co-operation

We help separated parents move from conflict to co-operation, so children feel secure, heard and supported. The programme helps parents to:

Support is available before Court, during proceedings, and after Court orders where communication has broken down.

The programme helps with

Where we focus

Co-parenting conflict
Child-focused communication
Parenting arrangements
Reducing conflict
Supporting children's wellbeing
Building sustainable agreements
Working alongside professionals

We work alongside Court processes, solicitors, social workers and safeguarding services where appropriate.

The programme is not

To be clear

Couples therapy
Legal representation
Marriage counselling
Taking sides
Deciding who children live with
Generic parenting classes
A quick fix

It is a focused, evidence-based programme designed solely around the needs of your children.

How it works

A clear path, at your family's pace

Flexible programmes of 4, 8 or 12 weeks, depending on what your family needs.

Step 01

Free consultation

We discuss your family situation and whether the programme is the right support.

Step 02

Individual parent sessions

Each parent is supported separately to explore their concerns and goals.

Step 03

Joint co-parenting work

Where appropriate and safe, parents work together on communication and arrangements.

Step 04

Agreement & ongoing support

We help families build sustainable arrangements focused on the child’s wellbeing.

Who we support

Support for every kind of family

Separated or divorcing parents
High-conflict co-parenting situations
Families involved in Court proceedings
Blended families
Grandparents and kinship carers
Parents where contact has broken down

Before & after

Families we support often experience

Repeated arguments about arrangements
Children caught in the middle
Communication breakdown
Stress around handovers and contact
Difficulty making shared decisions
Prolonged Court proceedings

After support, parents often report

Calmer communication
Reduced conflict
Clearer parenting arrangements
Better co-parenting confidence
Improved child wellbeing
Stronger family relationships

Safeguarding is at the heart of everything we do.

Every referral begins with an assessment to ensure support is appropriate and safe for all family members.

Trusted · Evidence-based · Recognised

Commissioned
by Local Authorities, NHS and Family Justice partners

Evidence-based
approach informed by research and practice

Recognised
by Family Justice and national organisations

CYPNow Awards
Winner 2023 & 2024 – Children & Young People’s Wellbeing

Independent evaluations
with Anna Freud Centre & CORC

You don't have to navigate this alone.

We’re here to help you support your children and build a better way forward – at a pace that’s right for your family.